In Part 1, we looked at how deeply embedded trauma and fear in your family’s lineage shapes your current experiences and view of the world. 

For thoroughness, it is useful to expand this view and consider the impact the fear-based thoughts you encounter in society and your culture also have on you.  For example, you do not have to look very far into the job and housing markets – two key areas connected to your survival – to notice that there is a pervasive mindset of scarcity, lack and fear. 

Without critical thinking and deep connection to your desires, natural state of abundance, talents and skills, these very accepted societal norms of growing up, getting an education, becoming a responsible adult and getting a job, sadly have the ability to seriously sever your connection with your true capability and personal truth.

Every day you are on the receiving end of innumerable different thought forms, belief systems and perceptions not only from the people you encounter but, on an energetic/psychic level, from those who are vibrationally resonating at the same frequency as you.

The more you are aware of who you REALLY ARE minus the influences and pervasive thoughts and beliefs of those around you, the more you are able to consciously co-create YOUR own life.

In other words, the trauma, fear and pain that has been passed down through your family lineage has a direct impact on your identity – who you fundamentally believe yourself to be, your capability, happiness levels, ability to authentically express yourself and feel truly free.

Leaning into who you REALLY ARE

Peeling away the layers of beliefs and fears that belonged to your ancestors is possible and indeed necessary in order that you can gain a true sense of the unique being you ARE.  If you are reading this and can sense the legacy of trauma and fear that has been passed down through the generations in your lineage, it can seem daunting to ponder exactly how to begin separating this from who you are at your core.  Luckily, however, rather than being a problem that can be solved with the mind, you already possess a deep, built-in, soul-level wisdom that guides this process along.

The process I am referring to here is one of becoming self-actualised – the process of becoming more of your true Self.

The process of becoming more of your true Self is the invisible path that you cannot see.  It can only be sensed, and it beckons to your soul. 

It is a process that has the power to end the cycle of victimhood, disempowerment and fear that accompanies deeply embedded psychic trauma and thereby liberates you from the shackles of the often long-distant past.

Being able to identify and let go of the patterns, thinking, subconscious limits and fears you have inherited is truly something remarkable that only you can gift to yourself.  And without a doubt, it takes courage to leave behind the comfort of an established way of living, creating and responding to life that is limiting yes, but for years has provided your people with stability and safety in the face of the unknown – because it was the best they were capable of in their time.

But there is a part of you that knows that these ways are not your own. 

They were born neither of your experiences nor of your soul. 

This, I believe, is one of the big reasons you are here on the planet at this time – not only to heal yourself and the planet, but in so doing, to energetically heal and release the spirits of those who have come before. 

With all the consciousness, resources and support that are available to you today, you are in a position now not only to break the cycle in order that they might find their own peace, but to fully claim your right to build a life that honours and celebrates the REAL you.

Written by Caroline Diana Bobart

About the author Based in Santanyí and the only professionally trained clairvoyant on Mallorca (Berkeley Psychic Institute and Church of Divine Man lineage), Caroline uses her skills to give her clients huge clarity, compassion and a vastly expanded understanding of themselves.  This in turn changes their energetic foundations and creates in their body/mind systems, cellular-level paradigm shifts that begin changing everything.  Caroline has 16 years of experience in private practice, is the owner of a high-level, high-touch, boutique-style business and serves a global clientele. Her client testimonials attest that her expertise and impact far transcends the limitations of more conventional modalities. Caroline is expert at helping clients who are committed and ready to think outside the box, naturally evolve their intuition, relationships, livelihoods and lifestyles through powerful energy healing and ever deepening self-love.